TPITP EP91 – When The Pause Becomes a Portal To Channeling Your Inner Leader
- wendy8390
- Jun 25
- 10 min read
In this episode, I’ll share how taking a conscious pause can unlock your inner leadership. We’ll explore a new kind of power. One rooted in your unique energetic blueprint. I’ll walk you through five key differences between hustle culture and feminine energetic leadership.
Your clients are drawn to your presence and authenticity… not just the results you deliver.
You are awakening. It’s time to lead from your feminine energy, to embrace your magnetic essence, and to lead with connection, not control..
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TRANSCRIPT
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nothing’s wrong with you and you’re not
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broken what’s happening is very much
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what I’ve been experiencing over the
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last goodness 3 to four months which is
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you are awakening the feminine energy of
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leadership says it is about your
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presence having potency and I’m here to
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turn that on its head any moment of
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pause that you can create in your life
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starting now today becomes that portal
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for you to channel that inner feminine
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leader that you were born to be
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hello everybody and welcome to another
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episode of the power in the pause show
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how are you guys doing today i am your
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host Wendy Paige Sterling and I am
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really excited to share with you guys
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today’s episode for a bunch of different
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reasons and the first has to do with
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sort of this undercurrent that I have
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been feeling myself it’s an undercurrent
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that I’m definitely feeling in the world
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globally in the energies that are
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surrounding my clients and so today’s
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episode is intended to help each of you
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listening today to learn when the pause
A portal to your inner leader
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actually becomes a portal to channeling
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your inner leader so I don’t know about
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you but I’ve been really tired have you
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been tired there’s this tiredness that I
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have been experiencing
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and it’s something that actually rest
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cannot fix so if you’re somebody who’s
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been feeling exactly that and you know
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what I’m talking about you’re going to
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want to stay tuned to today’s episode
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because we’re going to explore something
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that I have been learning that I have
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been tapping into is this new definition
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of power it’s one that’s rooted not in
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effort but actually in your energetic
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blueprint and it’s not rooted in
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performance which if you’re like me
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you’re really good at it’s actually
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rooted in your presence and the pauses
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required in order for that to occur so
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if you are somebody who feels like you
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have been sort of living in disguise
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wearing a mask wearing a costume
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and it’s really about hiding that
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intuitive version of yourself the person
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inside of you who really feels who sees
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who intuitits but yet you struggle to
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keep up with how things are supposed to
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look i just want you to know that
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nothing’s wrong with you and you’re not
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broken what’s happening is very much
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what I’ve been experiencing over the
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last goodness 3 to four months which is
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you are awakening so let’s break this
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down in what it is that has been going
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on what I’m experiencing and sort of
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what I the way that I’m putting words to
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what I have been experiencing let’s put
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it that way so there is a massive shift
Massive shift in feminine leadership
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happening right now in how feminine
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leadership is showing up and how it is
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intended to actually show up how each of
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you has been carefully created by God by
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the divine in how it is that you are
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meant to show up as a leader and the old
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bro marketing hustle mentality those old
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models do not sustain us they are not
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sustainable anymore not for our bodies
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not for our cycles not for our souls
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and here are the ways in which I want to
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distinguish right the five key contrasts
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that I see happening right now between
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hustleled culture and what I call
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feminine energetic leadership so the
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first is that number one the hustle says
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that you have to do more and you have to
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do more to have more well I’m here to
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bust that and say actually in order for
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you to lean into your feminine into
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leaning into your energetic feminine
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leadership code it is intended for you
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to actually be more to receive more okay
Be more, to receive more
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and the difference between the two is
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you actually magnetize through your
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frequency not through force so what I
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mean by that is you know how when you
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walk into a room and you just feel a
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vibe or you walk up to somebody and you
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feel something that is energy that is a
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frequency of your energy versus when you
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are using really you know commanding
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words or raising your voice that’s force
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so that’s what I mean by leading with
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your feminine
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it’s about magnetizing through frequency
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instead of the hustle which is through
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force make sense good number two the
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hustle says that you have value when
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you’re visible so visibility equals
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value well I’m here to say hell to the
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no okay if you’re somebody who thinks
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that you have to post 50 times on social
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media a day in order for people to see
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you and to think that you’re bringing
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value uh-uh that’s not it okay the
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feminine energy of leadership says it is
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about your presence having potency right
Presence having potency
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so the clients that are meant to be
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yours they do not need more content what
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they want is more of you more of your
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truth more of your frequency more of
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your message
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it’s not about quantity it is about
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quality here okay number three hustle
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says “Well I have to prove that I’m the
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expert i have to have all the
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certifications and the and the proof in
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the pudding right?”
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And I’m here to flip that on its head
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and say “No your feminine leadership is
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actually going to provide you with what
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it is that you desire when you transmute
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your lived experiences
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into a frequency code that your audience
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feels that they can relate to why
Your story is your most sacred asset
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because your story is the most sacred
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asset that you have it’s not in
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marketing okay it’s actually in the
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frequency that you are transmitting
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because that’s what’s going to alchemize
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and bring your ideal clients in the door
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okay number four the hustle says “Well
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consistency is king i got to be
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consistent right feel the hustle in the
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word consistency and your feminine
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energy
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your feminine leadership is here to say
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uh-uh
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simplicity is the queen so what do I
Cyclicity is queen
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mean by this okay
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leading from a linear perspective
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doesn’t work anymore you you listening
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to this show right here right now you
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are not here to lead from a linear plat
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place okay you’re actually here to be
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cosmic to be lunar to be magnetic
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and so it’s about you listening and
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tuning in to that cycle
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not one that is rooted in a more linear
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calendar does that make sense so
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following the leads following the
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channels right in the pause is where you
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tap in it’s where you channel it’s where
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you’re able to hear
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the messages it’s where you hear what it
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is that you’re you’re intended to bring
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into the world and you let that guide
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you that’s not linear hear the
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difference okay last one my friends the
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hustle says that you need to go out
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there and sell the outcome sell the
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out of it how many of you have heard
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that i mean I’ve heard it all day every
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day i hear it all the time i get ads for
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it it’s all over my Facebook feed sell
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the outcome that’s what people want and
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I’m here to turn that on its head well
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maybe I’m here to even just do a full
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360
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and I believe that your feminine
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energetic leadership blueprint is
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actually here instead to say “Transmute
Transmute that frequency
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that frequency put it out there.” Okay
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what I know and what I have been
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experiencing and I’ve even tested this a
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little bit i’m gonna be honest i’ve kind
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of been testing the difference to to
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really understand this for myself and
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also just to speak from experience right
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here’s my story your clients buy your
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resonance they buy you
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they buy what it is that you are putting
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out as a frequency because they trust
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that you’re going to get them the
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results your ideal client is buying you
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not the results because they already
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know that you’re going to get them where
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it is that they want to go and the
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results they want are probably way
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different than what they think
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so I want you guys to know that I am
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sharing this from my own story from my
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own wisdom from the fact that I have
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learned a lot of this the hard way i’ve
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learned it the hard way over the last
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decade that I have been doing this work
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and I used to believe that if I had the
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right launch strategy and the right
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launch plan if I followed my script if I
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showed up every day if I was consistent
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and posting that duh money would flow
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success is inevitable
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but I will tell you my body kept saying
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no it was tired my energy crashed hard
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and in those moments and in those days
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where I spoke from truth
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when I spoke from the channeling of what
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was coming in and messages that I’m
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being told to share i mean I’m just back
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from five days in Vegas at a soccer
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tournament with my youngest son and I
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learned more from watching him
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in those five days and the channeling
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that was coming in while I was watching
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his games was not only unexpected
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but there was a frequency that I knew I
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was here to transmute and if you want to
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see what some of those frequencies and
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messages were go check out my Facebook
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page Wendy Page Sterling and go see what
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I was sharing while I was there because
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I will tell you guys that when the
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invitations come through okay when I
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started paying attention and trusting
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from that higher source trusting and
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from the higher source in those moments
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of pause those moments of pause that
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allowed me to tap back into my feminine
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leadership
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that is when I started feeling seen and
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recognized and the invitations have just
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been flowing in since that point and
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it’s not because I was working harder or
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performing
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it’s because I was in a deeper alignment
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with my feminine leadership with that
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version of me so if you’re somebody who
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is buzzing about this episode and what
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it is that I’m saying if you’re somebody
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that is feeling that frequency which is
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a calling
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if you are somebody who is intuitive and
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super ambitious but yet you’re really
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tired you’re burned out if you’re
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somebody who has this massive desire to
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lead but not in the way that it it’s
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being done in whatever organization or
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even within your own entrepreneurial
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company that you’re leading
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I just want you to know that you’re not
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here to keep up okay the resonance is
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telling you that you’re also not here to
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hustle that’s not in your blueprint
Hustling is not in your blueprint
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what you are here is to join me in
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recalibrating
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your energy your signature your codes
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and recalibrate it
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re-calibrate it into the feminine leader
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that you are here to be whatever that
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means whatever that looks like
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and I want you to know that when you do
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that what is going to happen what what
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is going to appear in front of you
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is going to be greater than anything you
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could have ever imagined
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and so I hope that today’s episode
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provides you with something of like a
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mirror or just a moment of you
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reconnecting with that inner feminine
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leader within yourself
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to reconnect in with that version of you
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who knows the intuitive one your inner
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oracle
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because your energy is the blueprint it
Your energy is the blueprint
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is enough it is worthy
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so I want to thank you guys for joining
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me in today’s episode i hope that you
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found something valuable you know that
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with each episode that is my goal is to
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really help each of you to find just
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some nugget of information that either
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provides you with a validation or a
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permission not that you need validation
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but you’re just like “Oh she gets me.”
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That’s what my goal is for you with this
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particular show um I want you guys to
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share with me what was your big aha
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moment send me a DM on Instagram Wendy
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Page Sterling shoot me an email
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and share what landed for you in today’s
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episode it would be amazing if you would
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also leave me a fivestar rating and a
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review so that more people can find this
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particular episode and I hope that today
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you learned for yourself how it is that
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any moment of pause that you can create
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in your life starting now today becomes
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that portal for you to channel that
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inner feminine leader that you were born
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to be your people are waiting for you
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sending you all so much love and light
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always mwah bye everybody
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